Family Issues



Marital relations, parenting issues, sibling relations, interaction and behavior with relatives near and far.


beeing confused

I asked wether to marry from Hama or from Damascus. There is a egyptian girl who studied
Dawa in Sudan. She wears Niqab,makes Dawa on internet.
I only saw her father, he seems unlikable
but I want to study
so maybe shaitan send this girls
to disturb my studies.But I asked ALLAH to send the girl to me in whose eyes I would be greatest(and to let me be in my own eyes the smallest) and who accept all my weaknesses and who doesn’t use my weaknesses against me and on whose side my studies will be most easy and the divorced from Hama came to the internet coffee to speak to me.
But I don’t know if I said in my prayer “if it will be the best for me”
AND I FEEL I WOULD BE VERY OVERWHELMED AS I WOULD BE WITH PARENTING IF WE GET CHILDREN Continue reading

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Prayer Request: What is the right way of getting married?

Family friend bought a boy to our house for marriage purpose. we saw each other and spoke to each other with the presence of the elders. I did Isthikarah before i met him and the moment i saw him it felt perfect Alhamdulilah and Shaykh Hisham has given his blessings. Continue reading

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Marriage issue

nutshell Baya with Maulana Saab 21/22 Jan 2011 Lefke and SubhaanAllah blessed with Umrah some 40 days later between 6/3 – 21/3/2011. Continue reading

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Which girl should I marry?

I am a German convert learning in Damascus. I told you once that I got the offer to marry a divorced girl living in a village near Hama… Continue reading

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urgent please

Assalam Ya Sayyidi
I am female.i am too much worried because i get proposal but i dont know if its good for me I have my Shaykh but my parents not accepting him creates alot of problem for me if i ask my shaykh regarding proposal if its better for me or not then it becomes difficult for me to follow him because of my parents and if i don’t ask Him then how i come to know if its suitable for me or not?please Maulana Shaykh Hisham help me what can i do ?
Thanks alot and Love
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Heart elsewhere

I’m a practicing male Muslim and not married yet. I understand and accept the importance of marriage and feel ready for it… Continue reading

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Dawa

My non-Muslim family members have very strong political views. They listen to people on the far-right that make gross generalizations against Muslims. My father uses the word “Muslim” as a synonym for clandestine extremist. Continue reading

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Long Engagement

I have been engaged for two years and the marriage has been arranged through our parents… Continue reading

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DUA for having baby boy

Alhamdulillah that ALLAH grant us 5 beautiful girls and we are asking if their is a special du’as for having the next time a baby boy?… Continue reading

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Asking wife to leave the home

Question: If fulan says to his wife: “You have destroyed my life, you go to your father’s home for few days.” Does this break the relation?… Continue reading

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