Family Issues



Marital relations, parenting issues, sibling relations, interaction and behavior with relatives near and far.


Marriage, parental blessing

My ex-husband has requested to remarry me and I have accepted, we have a child. I am concerned how to speak to my parents as they may not be happy with my decision. I have made istikhaarah and feel… Continue reading

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Dilemma

The boy I previously spoke of is doing haraam. He had a job as a baker, but quit because he thought he was going to get fired. His businesses are: 1-Loan money to people and get 30% interest on it. 2- He is now running a tavern (place where you sell alcohol to people)… Continue reading

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No hope, poverty, crushed spirits

I have no hope in life at all. I have gone through unimaginable multiple losses materially. Everyone crushes me emotionally: my friends and family. I can’t reply and I can’t defend myself: no honour… Continue reading

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Lies

I am married and I am having a problem that I tell lies to my wife. What can I do to stop this? It is harming our marriage a lot and it is not making her happy with me… Continue reading

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Black Beads

Often we see that when babies are born, especially in indo-pak families, people would make the babies wear black bead bracelets, or keep on them small pen-knives. It’s often interpreted as protection from nazr, evil eyes, and negative energies… Continue reading

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Being a sayyid

I belong to sayyid family and its said sayyid girl only allowed to marry sayyid boy. Is it true, because everyone say that its discrimination… Continue reading

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Stem Cell Blood Banking

I wanted to ask about cord blood banking through a company. This is when they save the cord blood cells from when a baby is born, and you pay them a yearly fee to have it stored for you for potential future use. Continue reading

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Marriage help

Question: Asolmalikum, My parents are close with a family who are of good character. I hope to marry in that family with their son who is also of good character. They have never showed any interest as we are not related. … Continue reading

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Istikhara

I love a guy since 2 years and have a clear intention of marrying him, but I don’t know if he love me or not. He already has a gal friend… Continue reading

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Istikhara Request for marriage.

Can you please do istikhara for me as I have tried but have not received any signs or dream, however I feel confident that I should go ahead with my decision but maybe I am being biased. Will he be the right choice to make? Continue reading

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