Family Issues



Marital relations, parenting issues, sibling relations, interaction and behavior with relatives near and far.


Asking through Wasilah

I’ve met someone who intends to marry me. He generally has good deen and character, however he and his family don’t believe in wasilah, and are not mureeds. They believe we can ask directly from Allah ta’ala. Continue reading

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The right gender

I had hormonal problems since a child, although my birth certificate said female, I acted and was male since as soon as I could walk and talk. After lots of specialists, drugs, chemicals, and investigations, they gave up and I had gender reassignment. Continue reading

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7 Months Pregnant

I am right now 7 months pregnant, Alhamdulilah, but recently my husband keeps calling me names like fat, walrus & he refuses to sleep with me. I feel hurt all the time but I just swallow my feelings. Continue reading

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Convert Muslim woman rights

Can a Muslim woman travel if she has no mahram, in regards of visiting me and my family in regards to getting married… Continue reading

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Hindu wife struggle

I converted to Islam 17 years. We have two young children. It’s so tough living with a non-believer, a non-supporting wife. My fasting, prayers, teachings get in her way. No wife rights for months on end. Sleeping in separate beds for 12 years, my heart is crying. Continue reading

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Conversion and marriage difficulties

Years ago my wife taught me some fundamentals of Islam, but I felt like before I pray and accomplish all my deeds, I had to understand more the faith and let it grow… Continue reading

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What should I do?

I loved a girl who is Hindu, we loved each other a lot but we had frequent fights. I crossed my limits saying that I will marry her. My mother is not accepting… Continue reading

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Lied to prospective husband

Some years ago I told a big lie to a guy, I told him I had cancer. Then afterwards I told him that I got it treated and that I am fine now. I am now planning to marry this guy but I don’t know how to tell him… Continue reading

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Baby Biting

I have one baby who bites his mom and other children every time he is upset, please give me some zhikr, prayers or any advise to stop this biting. Continue reading

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Schizophrenia

My mother was diagnosed with schizophrenia. Can you please explain the origin of this disease and its cure. The Prophet (saw) said there is a cure for every disease except old age and cancer. Continue reading

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