a) My ex-wife saw 2 similar dreams whereby we were being intimate together in a dark room with curtains drawn but my hair was falling all over the place and it was clear that someone had cut my hair. It was falling out in clumps and all over my face and over her as well. She was pleading for me to tell her what happened but I was just ignoring her and seemed very weak and stumbling.
b) A similar dream whereby there is a lot of noise and a lot of ppl around, but me and my wife are in a room and “something” comes up behind me and starts pulling my hair out but I don’t take any notice at all. But my wife grabs the thing and tries to make it stop.
In both of these dreams my wife kisses and hugs me very tightly at the end.
Your ex-wife is not seeing you as a viable husband. Hugging after means that she feels some maternal feelings for you. Pulling the hair from the back is a warning to prepare for old age.