Dream:
I am 40 yr old unmarried. Last yr I loved a nonmuslim man, but he could not come to Islam. I left him. I still love him.
Dream1: he was trying to call me because he was in trouble. I tried to answer but another girl did not let me talk to him.
Dream2: he was sleeping beside me while holding my hand on top of his heart.
Dream3: I’m looking for him, but he was gone away on a train; he left a note saying “I love you.”
Dream4: someone says, “when he calls you some day, don’t ignore him, go to him and try to talk to him.”
I make dua that he see the light of Allah and returns Islamically. I ask Allah give me peace in my heart and healing, so I forget. I want to marry and have babies. Does the man still love me?
Interpretation:
wa `alaykum salam,
The dreams indicate he still loves you, but is caught up in dunya, which prevents him from accepting Islam. Insha-Allah he will eventually come seeking Islam through you. As to waiting for that to marry, it is likely to be a waste of your time, and you don’t want to end up regretting missing other opportunities to marry, as time is swiftly passing. You did the right thing, no doubt Allah will send someone better in his stead, as He swt said:
وَمَن يَتَّقِ اللَّهَ يَجْعَل لَّهُ مِنْ أَمْرِهِ يُسْرًا
{And for those who fear Allah, He will make their path easy.} (at-Talaq, 65:4)
And Allah knows best,
Mawlana Shaykh Hisham will pray for you, insha-Allah.
See the post by Shaykh Gibril: “To stop caring and forget”
Taher Siddiqui
