I’m a single mom in love with a Christian man, if he reverts he’ll lose everything near/dear to him. He loves me but currently has a Christian girlfriend for family peace.
Dream 1) He’s driving me to work, I’m on the back seat. He stops, takes paper plates and buys me a muffin which I eat and a slice of cake for himself. He’s wearing a woman’s wedding ring on his right thumb. He’s suddenly sitting with me and we’re both barefoot. I put on my socks and he walks me to work.
Dream 2) We’re in a car, he’s driving, the weather’s bad – rain and lightning (no thunder). We’re suddenly sitting together inside putting on socks. Tells me his favourite “character” from the Qur’an, Gottlieb (Love of God), is sewn into his sock. He leans his forehead against mine, says “I’ve decided it’s you,” we share a passionate kiss.
a`udhu billahi min ash-shaytan ir-rajeem
Bismillahi ‘r-Rahmani ‘r-Raheem:
wa `alaykum salam,
He does not have to lose everything by reverting. Many reverts are able to slowly educate their family about their faith. If this is not possible he may keep it to himself until an appropriate time. You have to be practical and decide whether this overall situation is tenable for both of you. He has to decide between you and your faith or the other lady.