Question:
salam ul alekom Shayk
My name is [private] I was 17 when I got married to [private] who was 23. He lives in America and me in Holland. We did an Islamic marrage and in these 2 years he did things like meeting up with other girls. I cannot trust him again. I fought a lot about that with him. Now he hates me. I still love him but I just can’t trust him. He said that it wasn’t true and he doesn’t do it. Now our families even are fighting. Can I trust him? And something else, he says I have to wait longer before we can live together because he doesn’t have a house. He still studies.
Please Shayk help me for an answer. I asked Allah for help a lot of times. I still do but I just want answers because I don’t know what to do anymore.
Answer:
wa `alaykum salam,
Either you can wait for one more year, or everyone goes on their way.
Shaykh Muhammad Hisham Kabbani
