Dua/prayers to get married

Question:

Assalamualaikum:
I am divorced. For over 7 years now, I have come close to one person who is also married to another person but not in a normal relationship. He kept saying that he wanted to marry me all this time and when I ask seriously he finds reasons to postpone our marriage for his son with the other woman or parents not being okay. I was even okay to be his second wife with no demands. I cannot cheat someone else if I go and marry another guy. After sacrificing all these time of my life, I still cannot ask for marriage yet. Unlike before, now he insists that I should marry someone else which is totally impossible. Physically or mentally I cannot accept anyone else.

Answer:

Alaykum Salam,

Both of you have ignored the stop signs of your mutual relationship, each one in his or her own way. On his part it is clear enough he has no intention to give you a halal position in his life, which is what you deserve. But on your part you have persisted in denial for an unreasonably long time. You have mistreated yourself even more than he has mistreated you. Turn to Allah Most High Who delivers on His promises and ask Him for a good life here and hereafter, even if that means to move on. He will support you and give you better than that in sha Allah.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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