Bismillah… Assalamualaikum warahmatullah wabarakaatuh.
I am asking this question on behalf of my younger sister. She has two marriage proposals but could not get an agreement with our parents with which one Allah has decided for her. Their names are … and … all our families are doing istikharah but still no answer. They want to get married ASAP to avoid from any sins. JazakAllah khair.
Prophet (upon him blessings and peace) said that Rida of Allah is with the Rida of the parent. Therefore in this case follow whatever parents prefer and you will secure blessing from Allah in sha Allah.
Hajj Gibril Haddad