Salaam..Please forgive me for bad Adab regarding the question below. I have tried to research on the permissibility of oral sex with my wife. However I have seen mixed reviews. If for the pleasure of my partner we performed oral sex on each other and avoided any fluid entering the mouth, is this act permissible then? I see from some sites that ss long as any discharge doesn’t enter the mouth it is OK? This act would only be done to please my partner and she has requested it. General love making is not enough and wanted to know if this is something we can do as a married couple as long as we refrain from any semen entering the mouth or any other fluids? Please accept my apologies for asking such a question, I felt the need to ask. Jazakallah
The basic ruling is licitness from head to toe except for anal intercourse, and also except genital intercourse at the time of menses, all provided harm is avoided, as spelled out in the Reliance of the Traveller m5. See here.
Hajj Gibril Haddad