Question:
Assalamu Alaikum Wa rahmatullahi Wa Ta’ala Barakatuh,
Dear Sheikh Gibril Al Haddad,
Allow me to ask for opinions from the Sheikh as follows:
How according to the Sheikh, if a husband and wife living separately in two different cities each with a job… My wife runs her job as a teacher in Sukabumi, while I run my job as an insurance marketing in Jakarta. Indeed, my wife’s income as a teacher gets a fixed salary per month is more secure while I am only in the form of commission alone. But since we got married, I always give up all my income to my wife. To be able to meet with my wife and children too many succumb to just only 2 days a week, or if there is a long holiday weekend. In this case I am just a quiet, shy, less good at hanging out and always succumb. But as a person who has been married I would also like if I could stay home under one roof. I’ve wanted to budge intend to let me move to Sukabumi to start a business from scratch again by trying to open their own business but my wife did not agree and prefer to stay separate (wife and children in Sukabumi while I was in Jakarta and is only 2 days a week, or if there is a long holiday weekend only I can come to Sukabumi). Does my income as an insurance marketing can still be referred to as a living for his wife and children? Honestly I am just a quiet, shy, less good at hanging out, and always relents. In addition I would like to request the opinion of Sheikh Gibril,namely:
According to some people saying that the insurance (or soul loss)equal to pray for people to become customer in the quick death, illness, accident or injury. But according to some people again say that this insurance provides protection guarantee if at any time of people who become customers is getting the unexpected calamity if it dies, accident, illness or injury. How in the opinion of the Sheikh?
Wabbilahi Taufiq Wal Hidayah vol, Wassalamu’alaikum Warohmatullohi Wabarokatuh.
Answer:
`Alaykum as-Salam,
Your intention to try and start a business in Sukabumi and keep everyone under one roof is the best. Recite Ya Razzaqu, Ya Hafizh and Hasbiya Allah wa Ni`ma al-Wakil 100 times each daily. Allah Most High will provide insha-Allah. Regarding life insurance see
http://www.eshaykh.com/halal_haram/life-insurance/
Hajj Gibril Haddad
