salamu alaykum ya sheigh
Many times when me or my sister make istighara we still take the wrong decision even when we follow the signs. This is my third marriage now and I still feel it’s a wrong decision. The question is: Could it be that shaytan can come in my dream after istighara ? Or can shaytan send you a wrong sign in my istighara? Can shaytan come in my salat istighara ? we always ask advice in salat istighara but still make the wrong decisions.
Djazaka allahu ghayran ya shaigh.
Try not to act on your own but make istikhara of elders and pious persons as well. Try to visit Mawlana Shaykh Hisham this Ramadan in London if you can.
Hajj Gibril Haddad