My name is [private]. I have been chatting with a woman named [private] over the internet and the telephone. We have a lot in common and are discussing the possibility of marriage and having a future together. Could I request for you to make an istikhara for us to see if we would be a good match for each other? Thank you.
If you and she keep Salat on time then you should proceed and ask Allah Most High to bless your common intention.
Hajj Gibril Haddad