Remarry

Question:

Asaallam Alaikom brother/sister,

I have a very important question. On [private] I got married but unfortunately the family and the man whom I met betrayed me and I got my divorce at the end of [private]. On [private] I’ve met a guy in school who fell in love with me without knowing about my life but Alhamdulilah I am a honest person I told him about my life and asked him to find someone else who was not married like me because I do not want to get married anymore and I  know that nobody would get married with a girl who was married but he accepted me even if I was married. His family does not want me as their daughter-in-law because I was married once and that’s what hurts me a lot by hearing that but Alhamdulilah I am a patient person and Alhamdulilah I am a girl who loves Our Allah (swt) and Our Prophet Mohammad (s.a.a.w) and follow Them. Dear brother/sister my question is, can that guy who loves me get married with my sister?

Thank you very much and I will wait for your answer.

Asaallam Alaikom.

Answer:

wa `alaykum salam,

Yes, he can marry your sister instead of you, but it does not sound like that is what he or you want. If you are satisfied with his deen and character you should accept his request and stop playing ‘tragic victim’ – rather accept his love as a sign that Allah and His Prophet (s) love you.

Taher Siddiqui

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