Ruined trust between spouses


Dear Beloved Shaykh,

I’m your humble admirer and follower. Please advice me what to do.

My husband has been unfaithful to me, several times. He denies it, despite emails, sms, phone calls I found. I cannot trust him. He wants me to forgive; move on quickly. Go against my family (they want him to leave due to his behavior) and put all my trust in him.

He spends his days smoking, playing online games. At night he goes out to meet friends. Comes home after midnight. I didn’t want to live like this. I’m scared of being alone, without someone to protect me. My family doesn’t like Islam. My husband keeps telling me that he loves me, but he does not want to change his ways or become religious. Inside me, I’m suffering from this. I have no children from him; my daughter is from a previous marriage.

JazakAllah khayr.


Read hasbunallah wa ni’ama ‘l-wakeel 100 times. Insha-Allah it will be better.

Shaykh Muhammad Hisham Kabbani

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