Question:
I did nikah to her in presence of two witness two years ago right then she is living with her parent and we told parents about this so they agreed to arrange a marriage ceremony But before that I wrote talaaq talaaq talaaq on whatsapp and sent her.
Answer:
See the post “3 times written Talaq“.
Staff
Question:
Salaam alaykum,
What are the proper rules and adabs to follow when a husband and wife are irrevocably divorced?
Thank you.
Answer:
Alaykum Salam,
The same as between two persons who are foreign to each other but without prospect of marriage, i.e. keep your distance, except insofar as their children’s rights are concerned and the two divorced parents’ respective rights and duties are concerned.
Hajj Gibril Haddad
Question:
I divorced my wife due to her extreme immoral past 2 months back. I try to be a practicing Muslim and don’t have such dreams, but a few days back I saw myself having sex with her (In dream she was still my wife).
Answer:
It means having an argument or verbal fight with her, Allah knows best.
Taher Siddiqui
Question:
بِسْمِ اللهِ I saw an unknown, old, frail, short bearded shaykh in a group ahead of me. He turned back to me and I reached out to his hand to kiss it with respect. I never let his hand go until death and kept making dua with him for my current mursheed.
Answer:
That shaykh is the one in charge of your qalb, and Allah knows best. You observed the correct adab in meeting a Shaykh other than your murshid, to get his prayers for your master and to ask his assistance (holding his hand) to follow your murshid. Keep what you saw in the dream in real life and succeed in this life and the Next inshaAllah.
Taher Siddiqui
Question:
Salam my name is [private] husbands name [private]. I got married in August 2016 stayed happy for three months then his uncle died and he is saying I don’t want to be with you anymore and has told me to leave.
Answer:
What does his uncle’s death have to do with your marriage? Sounds like a foolish false excuse to get out of the marriage. Perhaps it is time to move on and seek someone with a sounder mental state. Allah knows best.
Taher Siddiqui
Question:
I saw in dream that noticeboard of my apartment building is mentioning someone’s death (I’ve never met that person). When I got up I had an sms at the exact same time of dream telling me about the death of my colleague’s father (I never met him before)
Answer:
As the Holy Prophet (saws) said, “Dreams are 1 from 46 parts of Prophecy,” and: “Nothing remains of the beginnings of Prophethood except the good vision a Muslim may see.”
Dr. Aziz Hussein
Question:
A few years back I saw that I was in a room with lots of sheikhs of old age and I’m the only young person. We are of a thought that Prophet Muhammad SAW is around (may be in the next room). What does this mean?
Answer:
When you associate with the lovers of Sayyidina Muhammad (s) he is always around. When you remember him in yourself he (s) remembers you in his own self and when you remember him in a gathering he remembers you in a gathering that is better than your gathering, and Allah knows best. Being young among old mashaykh is good tidings for you, that you have the energy of youth for worship (`ibadah), but the religiosity of the elderly.
Taher Siddiqui
Question:
Salam
Should we try for baby number 8 even if we struggle a little bit I really want another baby boy have 6 girls 1 boy please are we going to be OK and can you please make dua for our family we don’t have any help from any one only our children thank you
Answer:
wa alaykum salam,
Birth and death are in Allah’s Hands. Every child arrives with its own provision, maktub, written for it by Allah swt in the Preserved Tablet so don’t worry about ‘struggle’. Ask Allah to bless you with pious offspring who will be a blessing, boy or girl, regardless.
Taher Siddiqui
