Request:
Assalamu alaikum.
I’m in a relation with someone for long time. But my boyfriend behaves very rudely with me and doesn’t care for me. I’m losing hope and interest on him. I know a man who is very pious and religious and i think he will make a very good husband. Sometimes i think that it would be nice if i could marry him. I really want to get married and settle down with a good pious life partner. Can you please do ishtikhara for me and the other man(not my boyfriend) and tell me if that would be a good choice. But there is another problem, his elder brother hasn’t yet married, so i think that he might not be interested in marriage right now. Also i know that he has no interest in me as he knows that i m already in relationship with someone.
Response:
Alaykum as-Salam,
The second man is better for marriage. Furthermore, there is no blessing in haram relationships and it is no surprise that they lead to disappointment.
Hajj Gibril Haddad
