Salaam to you,
Why is it whenever I make do’a to lighten my load or my wife’s load, almost immediately, something goes wrong and trouble erupts? This has occurred several times already.
I thought this is a good do’a.
Is this a bad do’a?
wa `alaykum salam,
Sometime when you make du`a, instead of giving what you asked, Allah sends tests and trials to clean you up. this is also answer to the du`a, because you are asking to lighten the load, and when you are clean, your load will become lighter.
Also, to make du`a you must follow the correct method. See the latest transcripts on “Islamic Healing” of Mawlana Shaykh Hisham Kabbani on sufilive.com to understand correct manners in du`a.