Question:
AsalaamuAlaykum Ya Syedi,
I have asked you questions before about marriage to a particular girl. You told me to leave it to Allah (swt) and so I have. Since then, every few weeks I hear that she is interested in marrying someone but then nothing materialises. Again, soon someone else is coming to see her. However, she has still not changed her mind concerning me. I realise that perhaps I am being impatient, but I am getting quickly depressed by this and do not see how this will be resolved in my favour. I know you know who I am, I am not the best of people but I am trying. Please help me Shaykh Hisham.
May Allah reward you and Mawlana Shaykh Nazim and elevate your spiritual ranks.
Answer:
`Alaykum Salam,
Hearts are in the Divine hand and there are countless pious matches praying that Allah send them a good husband. If someone is adamant that you are not for her, someone else will welcome your interest with an open heart. Try to move on and trust in Allah.
Hajj Gibril Haddad
