Question:
I had one relation for 5 years but later he broke up with me (people said, it was black magic & some said, he was brainwashed). I hoped he’d come back but never did. After several years I did another one but in that relationship (the boy’s family was making problems) so I got out of the relation, but he didn’t want to break up. I tried ishtekhara and few times and I saw my first boyfriend in dreams (but is it because I thought of him?) and I went to shrine in Ajmer, there one Khadem picked up name of my second boyfriend inside the shrine (I gave 3 papers – 2 of the names of my boyfriends and one blank paper) but that wasn’t any ishtekhara. After that. I contacted my second boyfriend, he didn’t reply anymore.
Answer:
Make intention for marriage, not long engagements where there is more opportunity for shaytan’s whispering to come in and derail the relationship. Recite astaghfirullah 300 times daily and recite salawat as much as you can to remove obstacles and bring more blessings and mercy on you. And Allah knows best.
Dr. Karim
