Request:
A-Salaamu Alaykum Ya Sayyidi,
I am 29, unwed, with no job prospects. I need your du’a, inshaAllah. I have bad anxiety problems from gang violence and abuse that was in my past and I am on heavy medication. My parents are Christian and are mad that I wish to get married because of my money situation. I told them I cannot have a girlfriend. They want me to have girl friends. I am feeling very sad that I will never complete half of my deen sometimes. Mawlana Shaykh Hisham I need your help please. I will do whatever you tell me. I am so frustrated I don’t know what to do. You know better then me. How can I help the pressure? I cannot fast because of my medicine. May Allah bless you and Mawlana Shaykh Nazim. Amin and sorry for my adab.
Response:
`Alaykum Salam,
Ask your physician to wean you from the heavy medication little by little so you can get healthier. Keep looking for a job even part-time, Allah will provide. Sickness is transitory and you are responsible for yourself before you can have someone in your life, which will happen soon in sha Allah.
Hajj Gibril Haddad