Question:
Asalaamu alaikum, I had a proposal from a brother but asked for nikah to be done in secret as his family would never allow him to marry a revert. I have mixed emotions for him so I did Isikhara. I had dream I was grooming him, washing his hair and two of his brothers were laughing and talking with me. He did istikhara and he went to jump and talk was women’s rights in marriage. Are these positive signs or coincidence? I think I’m being told I could marry him even though it’ll be a hard life for me but I’m unsure if it’s just my feelings for him wanting me to marry him not true feeling from Allah to guide me?
Answer:
Alaykum Salam,
There is permission and blessing if you are prepared to face difficulties from family but it will get better in sha Allah.
Hajj Gibril Haddad
