Question:
Assalaamoalailkum brother and sisters,
I would like to know something. I really love someone, I can do anything for him but he doesn’t care about me at all. He ignores me all the time. He doesn’tĀ even do anything for me. Is there any dua I can do to melt his heart for me, to love me more than anything, do anything for me, be crazy for me the way I am crazy for him? I want to see him in same situation that I’m going through. Please answer me as soon as possible.
Jazakallah.
Answer:
Wa ‘alaykum salam,
While falling in love is something that does happen, often it is only an infatuation, with no reality. Our way is marriage and our approach to marriage is to have our shaykhs and family choose an appropriate spouse who will go along with the family and our religious and spiritual values.
So if Shaykh and family see this person fit for you, you may recite the Du`a of Sayyidina Dawud (as).
Taher Siddiqui