Question:
Salaams to everyone,
My teenager daughter who is 15 has slowly become disobedient. She has a boyfriend which we found out about. He is not Muslim. Keep telling her to stop this relationship but does not listen and lies all the time.
Please give me a dua to make her realise what she is doing is wrong before she does anything too serious. It is very hard to communicate with her.
Please help we are worried sick.
Answer:
Alaykum Salam,
Bad manners are usually the result of environment and nurture which is hard to undo at the drop of a hat. If she was raised praying her five prayers then that will protect her. Make sure she knows that you love her and that it will break your hearts that harm should come to her. Recite Ya Hafeez, Ya Sattar, Ya Qadeer x100 daily.
Hajj Gibril Haddad