Question:
I got married in 2011, and a few months after I found my husband is a couple, with a man. I realized that they were/are together more than five years, he never told me what he is an homosexual. He just married to have babies with me and for his family and friends to be happy, but he’s never liked me. He prefers to “do love” with men, even he prays and did hajj. He recognizes as I show him the evidences, the proofs, the emails, the letter which show he is gay. He says he felt gay since he was a kid, teenager, and has always had a gay partner. I feel cheated, deceived.
Alhamdulillah the doctors say to him it is improbable to have kids, as his sperm is not working well. I can’t still be married to him, I want to get the divorce, but he doesn’t want it.
Answer:
Your husband has admitted lying to you and using you as a superficial cover for his other life. He has confirmed giving you ample grounds to obtain divorce. It is up to you to take action by leaving him.
Hajj Gibril Haddad
