Question:
Salaam,
My husband keeps asking me and pushing me to have another woman be in our bedroom. I do not want to be with another woman. He says it is not haram because women can be together sexually since there is no real intercourse or penetration. He does not want to touch her, but wants to watch me and some stranger female be intimate. I am really upset and feel embarrassed to even write this. What do I do? He keeps saying as a wife it is my duty to fulfill his desire.
Answer:
He is a liar. It is haram to even be naked with another person, so what then about intimacy? He is trying to support his perversion with false religious edicts. Refuse his request as “There is no obedience to a creature in disobedience to The Creator.” [Ahmad and al-Hakim] and “Obedience is only in what is right.” [Sahih Bukhari and Sahih Muslim]
Taher Siddiqui
