Request:
Assalamoulaikum,
I have known a married man (50) with kids for 12 years. I don’t know when fell in love with him. I kept my feelings secret. He was suspicious. At first he said he is happy with his wife. A few weeks ago he said that he wants a 2nd nikah for halaal sex. I asked him if topic was for me to consider. Said I deserve a better person. I told him its better for me to take distance and leave the country. He said no go and not be able to stop contacting each other even far away.
I did istehara and I got 2 dreams
1) A newpaper page blank and middle small square written black.
2) Bright supermarket white shelf with one blue silver can.
Please advise me what to do, what prayers to say. I am so confused and upset that I cannot concentrate. Thank you.
Response:
Alaykum Salam,
Unless he comes out and marries you in a straightforward way, you are
right to turn a new page as he does not know what he wants even though
middle aged with children.
Hajj Gibril Haddad
