Question:
ssalaamwalaikum,
I have a problem and really need your help. My problem is that I loved this guy and he promised to marry me. He lived with me and my old mother for 8 months. Both of us are Muslims and was about to get married (NIKKAH) last August. Don’t know what happen to him. He changed his mind left the country and broke all relation with me. Don’t know why he did that. Its getting 5 months now. I am totally broken!! I am so depressed and truly love him. I am in depression and am always sick now. I pray regularly but still cant get over him. Every single day I feel very suicidal and feel liking killing myself. My mother is soo depressed and worried too. I want him back in my life once again. He doesn’t even talk to me. I really love and miss him a lot. Please help me to get him back in my life. I want him to come back and love me again and marry (DO NIKKAH) with me. I want him back in my life for good. Please tell me what to do. Hope to hear from you soon.
Answer:
wa `alaykum salam,
You should be happy he left without marrying you for his character has been shown to be treacherous. Thank Allah and in-sha-Allah Mawlana Shaykh Hisham Kabbani is praying for you.
Recite “Hasbunallah wa ni`ama ‘l-wakeel” 100x daily for Allah to support you and take you out of depression.
Taher Siddiqui
