Question:
Salaam,
I need advice [private], my husband and I are married for 3 months now but we in a relationship for almost 5 yrs.We had arguments few days ago his now staying at his moms house. He told me his gona divorce me,whats my rights. I love him.
Answer:
wa alaykum salam,
Be patient with him and let him be patient with you. When he is upset, as Mawlana Shaykh Hisham Kabbani teaches, don’t try to confront him, even if you are “right”. Our Shaykhs’ teaching is it takes two hands to clap so don’t participate in the argument and back up. If you are angry make wudu, and pray 2 raka`ts. If still angry do it again. May Allah reconcile your hearts in love of Allah and His Prophet and the Awliya.
Aziz Hussein
