Question:
Salam, I am a mureed of Shaykh Nazim.
My wife and I have have been married for nearly 20 years we have 5 kids. We argue alot and even in Ramadan where I have broke my fast many times due to my aggression. My kids are now mentally being affected.
Answer:
Waalaikumussalam.
Mawlana teaches the way of wilaya. Sainthood. Means endurance, love, tenderness, peace and patience heart and mind, speech and action. Marriage is a big avenue of openings. Children bring an even bigger opening. Ego knows no limit to transgressions. What happened? Wake up and be the guardian of your happiness and theirs in dunya and akhira. We have no excuse even if Allah is Most Forgiving. Stop breaking hearts and rid yourself of anger or die trying.
Hajj Gibril Haddad
