Request:
Asslam’
Dear Shaykh,
I recently wrote to asking you if you would do istikhara for marriage on behalf of me. Your response was that ‘Our Istikhara showed that you have too many problems in your life’. I am unsure if you meant that this marraige aws not good because there would be too many problems with it, or if you are saying that there are too many problems in my individual life – as I outlined to you in my last request. The names of the people that I asked you to do istikhara for are [private].
I was hoping you could clarify this matter for me and tell me if this marriage is good to pursue or not?
Also, please make dua for us.
Jzk
Response:
wa `alaykum salam,
I believe Mawlana Shaykh Muhammad Hisham Kabbani is informing you that before considering marriage you need to deal with the many problems in your life as they may interfere with success of any marriage.
Make an accounting of your problems and then begin to address them one-by-one until you “clear your accounts” and insha-Allah then things will open up.
Taher Siddiqui
