Divorce or wait for him?

Question:

salamaleikom, I married 7 months ago. He left his town to come to live with me,since then he came he changed a lot. Was very aggressive,he had some intimacy difficulties,no job,always watching movies and computer. He wanted to work with shatzu massage but i asked him not to do to women,since he made me jealous of his many ex girlfriends. He never cut with some . Now he left me, went  back to his town telling me I am too much rigid. He wants to be free to smoke marijuana, have friendship with ex girlfriends,and work doing shatzu massage also to women. I love him a lot but i think drugs and bad friends are confusing him and separating us. His mother committed suicide when he was 3 years old. I love him and hope he can come back to me,but he is confused and want to divorce. Should I  wait for him? Thanks a lot,pray for us!!

Answer:

Alaykum as-Salam,
Recite Ya Fattah, Ya Karim for forty days to the intention of improvement or change. If no improvement you should move on. Allah Most High revealed to the Holy Prophet, upon him blessings and peace, {Truly you cannot guide those whom you love, it is Allah Who guides whoever He wills}.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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