Question:
Salaam,
I have been receiving isthkara about marrying someone, Mawlana came in my dreams saying his name. I did isthkhara and I saw few of the awliya Allah who I asked them to make dua for me. But the guy has no idea of this. I was wondering what to do. I did itsthkhara if I should approach him and in the dream first I saw my self crying and stressing saying I’ve made a fool out of my self but then I saw a green and white hijab and then saw me and this guy in a masjid.
Should I approach him?
Answer:
Alaykum Salam,
Have your male wali (father, uncle, brother) befriend him and invite him for an informal visit at which time you can serve him tea and meet him. You can take it from there.
Hajj Gibril Haddad
