Request:
Assalamoualaikoum to all,
I apologize for the lack of adab.
My name is [private], my dad name is [private]. The boy I love for 3.5yrs name is [private], his dad name is [private]. We both want to do nikah, but he can’t afford it right now, until he gets a permanent job at least, so that we can survive. I received a proposal, his name is [private], I refused to my parents. That night I dreamed of me in Cyprus, crying for help for the boy I love. I saw MSN, Shaykh Effendi, “smiling” gave me 2 taweez, both of them had few knots in the string. He said to me to wear it and mention that I will have a daughter. Please advice that my refusing decision was right.
Jazak Allah
Response:
Alaykum Salam,
You have every right to turn down offers. However, keep your parents well-informed of your intention to marry your specific choice and let his parents make a formal offer. Your parents want your happiness so let them know what makes you happy so they can help you achieve it in sha Allah. Recite Ya Fattah Ya Hafeez x100 daily.
Hajj Gibril Haddad
