Question:
Assalaulmu aliakum...My name is [private]…I love someone though I know it is haram…but I could not stay away from him…Day by day I got closer to him…then my family decides to marry me off & they started to choose boys…I made istikhara several times & I don’t know why several times I directly saw him whom I loves…At my last dream I offered my tahajjud salat & also istikhara…I and my little sister sleeped together… we both saw almost same dream…there was a proposal in my house..everyone is happy with this proposal including me…my sister didn’t see the groom in her dream but I did..it was him whom I loves…my father was talking to him & everyone is very happy inn my house…after some days I saw another dream that I was married & went to my parents house with my husband…& my husband was talking to my elder brother…my brother was giving him advise….. & it too was him whom I loved…and i never feel bad of him after istikhara prayer rather I feel more attraction to him….I am very confused now…should i wait for him or give yes to my parents to choose another man? please help me so that I can get true guidance.
Answer:
wa `alaykum salam,
InshaAllah Mawlana Shaykh Hisham Kabbani is praying for you.
It means the one you love needs to take the initiative and approach your parents asking for you hand in marriage. Allah knows best.
Taher Siddiqui
