Question:
Assalamualaikum!
I am in great need of your advice . I am engaged to my cousin brother and i discovered that he is not loyal n trustworthy person .I spoke to my parents but none took action.Meanwhile my Ex-boyfriend comes into the scene. So i asked him to talk to my parents directly.But before that i did istekhara. I just don’t know how to interpret my dream.Since istekhara needs to be consulted with a knowledgeable person,I just thought if you can help me.
First day I saw An unknown lady saying in a harsh tone that this relation cannot be broken. Soon after doing istekhara i developed hatred towards my Ex-boyfriend..It happened naturally.
But on the 3rd day of istikhara i saw that i was making out with my ex-boyfriend..Now what does this indicate?
I am very much confused..Please Imam help me in coming out of this please.
Jazakallah khairun!
Answer:
Alaykum salam,
No one can force you to marry a person you do not wish to marry. Old woman represents dunya laid bare. Ex-boyfriends have no role to play here whatsoever. Seek a halal blessed alternative and just talk to your parents.
Hajj Gibril Haddad
