Question:
I asked wether to marry from Hama or from Damascus. There is a egyptian girl who studied
Dawa in Sudan. She wears Niqab,makes Dawa on internet.
I only saw her father, he seems unlikable
but I want to study
so maybe shaitan send this girls
to disturb my studies.But I asked ALLAH to send the girl to me in whose eyes I would be greatest(and to let me be in my own eyes the smallest) and who accept all my weaknesses and who doesn’t use my weaknesses against me and on whose side my studies will be most easy and the divorced from Hama came to the internet coffee to speak to me.
But I don’t know if I said in my prayer “if it will be the best for me”
AND I FEEL I WOULD BE VERY OVERWHELMED AS I WOULD BE WITH PARENTING IF WE GET CHILDREN
Answer:
wa `alaykum salam,
Correct your intention in your istikhara and repeat it and see what transpires. Your common sense is clearly telling you this is not a good match.
Taher Siddiqui
