Question:
Salaams. I am a 20 year old girl. Two years ago I met someone wif whom there was a mutual interest for another. Only thing is he is 23 years older than me.I am very much in love wif him and he too is wif me. But I am not always very happy in the relationship. He does not treat me well and I don’t feel like I deserve him sometimes. He has spoken to an imaam about possible marriage but he doesn want to do anyfin about finding a stable job. I’m at crossroad, don’t know what to do here?
Answer:
wa `alaykum salam,
Consult your family about this decision, you cannot make this on your own.
Taher Siddiqui