Question:
Assalâmu ‘alaykum wa rahmatulLah,
I’m almost 23 years old.
I was married to a horrible young man for 3 years, and has been divorced for 1 year. It was very hard to move on, and sometimes I still get angry at my ex and cry, but alhamdulilLah I’m fine. I can feel that I miss someone to love me and take care of me. I want a family. First of all; I’m very scared of getting married, so I’m not sure whether I’m ready to get married or not.
Right now, I’m talking with a brother about marriage. This brother is from Hizbut Tahrir. I don’t know whether I should forget him and find a person who is from my own “group”. Or should I just focus on this brother’s personallity?
Please make du’a for me, and guide me…is there anything you can recommend??
JazakalLah
Answer:
wa `alaykum salam,
We do not recommend that. It is your choice.
Hajjah Naziha Adil
