Request:
Asalamu alaykum
Laylatul Qadr Mubarak .
Madad.Please support the success of our marriage. I love my husband and wish to remain his wife, happily, amin, but we have been anything but happy since we’re married.Please look at us and please fix us- together. We have and are trying and struggling.We’re at our wits end. Shaykh Hisham said to be patient till Hajj, but am I just being patient to only get the final divorce? Shaykh knows that I dont wish to be back in my parents home so please help to make this marriage work. Please help to fix our intimate life aswell-urgently- and increase my husbands affection and kindness towards me. Please help Sayyidee. Shaykh, I have a new role model that belongs to your family, please pray I become just like her. I love her. Allah protect and bless this family.amin. Long life to our Master MSN
Response:
wa `alaykum salam,
Insha-Allah Mawlana Shaykh Muhammad Hisham Kabbani is praying for you.
Our mashaykh always go quick towards marriage, slow towards divorce for Allah said:
{If a wife fears cruelty or desertion on her husband’s part, there is no blame on them if they arrange an amicable settlement between themselves; and such settlement is best; even though men’s souls are swayed by greed. But if ye do good and practise self-restraint, Allah is well-acquainted with all that ye do.} (an-Nisa, 4:128)
Taher Siddiqui