Question:
Asalamu’ alaikum,
I have known a girl 2 years. 1st year we were good, 2nd year we had problems. our family have spoken about marriage and are happy to let us marry. i have gone past the problems as i know i want to marry her. but she has not, now constantly negative towards me, she won’t allow us to speak about it. in the time which i neglected her she befriended a man. in 6 months of them being friends she says she has feelings for him. now she feels confused whether she should marry me or him. she says that she does not speak to him and neither has she told him about her feelings, so she can think. our parents do not know yet about what is going on. i do not know what to do.
jazak’allah
Answer:
Save yourself and herself from problems – let each one go his own way. It is easier than later to get married and bring children and then it becomes complicated.
Shaykh Muhammad Hisham Kabbani
