Question:
Salam w alaykum shaykh,
First I want to apologize for asking this question and my complains. I have some problems lately. My mother is getting a divorce with my stepdad and also my father is getting a divorce to. I find it really hard to deal with this. I’m not the same person as I used to be. I feel depressed and sad. When I wanna talk to my husband about how I feel, he gets irritated or mad at me and says that I nag and complain all the time. Most of the time we are in a discussion and he always says it’s my faulth and that he needs a new relationship. I know I complain allot and I’m not making my husband happy all the time, what can I do to make my marriage back about love and support?
JazakAllah.
Answer:
Wa’alaikumussalam,
Keep your parents’ problems to yourself and no need to discuss them with your husband since he gets irritated with it. Show no sadness or depression to him ever if your heart is broken. Don’t let the same situation happen to you. Reducing complaints increases intimacy with your husband. It will bring more blessing, love and support to your marriage. As for your parents, make dua and pray for the best for them. Recite lots of Salawat every day 100-1000x after each prayer to remove all the problems.
Hajjah Faridah
