Question:
Assalamo Alaykum sayyidi. My name is [private] and I’m 16 years old…I love one girl nd she also love me..so we decided to get married as soon as possible..sayyidi please help me. My mother is against her but I want to marry her because I want to be in a halal relationship…plz tell me some dua and give me advice sayyidi..!
Sorry for my lack of Adab
Assalamo Alaykum wa rehmatullahi wa barakatuhu sayyidi
Answer:
Walaikumas Salam Wa Rahmatullahi Wa Barakatuhu
Bismillahir Rahmanir Raheem,
Advice is to always consult your parents regarding your marriage. If you love her you must tell your parents why you love her so that they understand you. Communication is the key here. Also you need to have open mind to see why they object. Then, put the reasons why you like her and the reasons why your parents don’t like her side by side for comparison in the light of our religion Islam. By the way, you are still too young (16 years old) to decide by yourself for such an important issue.
Recite Ya Wadud x100 per day and tell her also to recite, and then recite 10 salawat and ask Allah for giving the best solution.
You can also do istikhara.
Syed Shahzaman
