Question:
Assalamu Alaikum,
I am in my 40’s and interested in a man who is in his 40’s as well. I’m divorced and I’ve been living on my own for [blank] years, mainly due to family complications, and he lives on his own too. How can I get to know this man in the most halal way possible when there are no available mahrams? My brothers are older, with their own families, they’re rarely available and my dad is mentally incapable of making decisions so having them around would be complicated and impractical.
Would it be acceptable for me to get to know him in a public place so as never to be alone with him at any time?
Answer:
wa `alaykum salam,
Use your judgment responsibly and go ahead with meeting him in a public place.
Imam Senad Agic
Head Imam (IABNA)
The Islamic Association of Bosniaks in North America
American Islamic Center – Chicago
