Question:
After argument my husband wrote on a paper my name and I ‘dirocee’ divorce was not written properly. We checked this shaykh said divorce invalid. in jan 2011 we argued and he told my family to collect me said that we move closer to family. We resolved issues and I came back to my parents .He never did and we argued in feb 2011 he said on phone I divorce you anger. We were told one divorce done
We not living together as he working away and refusing to come my parents home. i was told there is black magic. His behaves oddly. One minute he is serious then tearful then laughing.He is diagnosed with Huntington’s disease and needs treatment . I went to see him we got in to argument. He phoned and following argument he said ‘I divorce you’ twice in anger but really did not remember that.
Answer:
If he is mentally fit then he has divorced you at least once and probably twice already. If he is mentally unfit it is up to you to stay with him and help him or consider yourself divorced. Recite “Yaa Wadud, Ya Hakim” x100 after every Salat and make istikhara.
Hajj Gibril Haddad
