Question:
Aslkm,
Am engaged to my cousin but there is nothing healthy relation between us. He has a very bad language and does a lot of suspicion. He is always involved in haram girls. I want to end this relation. Please perform an isteqara and guide me what can I do without hurting my parents.
Jazakallah
Answer:
Alaykum salam,
Tell your parents exactly what you told us. Tell them politely and gently also that Sharia gives you 100% right not to accept a marriage if you don’t want to. Tell them to find you a moral person, a good person not someone wild and worthless. Allah is watching and judging so let everyone be take care. Allah is generous, He will send someone good your way in sha Allah.
Hajj Gibril Haddad
