Question:
When I first met a brother that wanted to marry me, I had a dream that we were sitting in a white place holding hands .
In a second dream, he was wearing the fancy coat of an army leader and looking very handsome.
After I prayed istikharah,
I dreamt that we were holding hands again, but I let go of his hand and turned away slightly.
Then I dreamt, that I was a teacher of small children, and that I kneeled down to hug and comfort a sad orphan/neglected child.
Answer:
Audhu billahi min ash-shaytan ir-rajim
Bismi-llāhi r-raḥmāni r-raḥīm
Wa `alaykumu s-salāmu wa rahmatu l-lāhi wa barakātuh,
The two dreams before you did the istikhara and the second dream after, shows that this man might be suitable for you but the first dream after you did the istikhara shows that there will be some difficulties from your hand.
If you are unsure, you may consult your family or repeat the istikhara until it become clearer for you insh Allah.
And Allah knows best
Wissam
