Question:
Assalamualaikum,
I am 22 years old female who has problems getting married. My relatives are searching for a man. An Awliya of Allah asked my mother and me to recite salathun nariya for a number of days . MashaAllah, we finished it. My mother asked me to marry my cousin brother who i have no interest in and the Awliya of Allah approved of the union. I don’t like the person and i’m scared of refusing my cousin as i might displease Allah by not following His Awliya. Ya sayyidi, should i go ahead even though i don’t like the person? Is it wrong of me? Please make dua for my marriage. Are there any recitals i can do to get married? Also, when my mother found out that this marriage will take place only after 3-4 years, she backed off. But this marriage is approved by Awliya.
JazakAllah
Answer:
Alaykum Salam,
Prophet (upon him blessings and peace) said not to delay marriage but do it promptly. Your mother is right.
Hajj Gibril Haddad
