Question:
Dear Shaykh,
I am a married woman who loves my husband dearly. However, I still find myself thinking and fantasizing about other men. I know this is completely wrong. What can I do to stop this?
Also, when we are engaging in sexual intercourse, it is difficult for me to be in the ‘moment’. Sometimes I have to think about another man which I know is very wrong.
What can I do?
I have recited plenty of ‘Ya Wadud’.
Please advise.
Answer:
Fill your thoughts with dhikr and they will lift you upwards in sha
Allah. Think of Allah and His gift through your husband, you will be
in the moment.
Hajj Gibril Haddad
