Question:
Salam’alaukum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh. Ya sayyidi may overflow of blessing to you. Let me ask sayyidi.
I am 25 years old. You advised to get married soon. I’ve been working, insyaallah enough to live in Indonesia. When I asked permission from my mother to look for a spouse and marry her, my mother forbade me. She asked to marry after buying an established home and my life, but to buy a house here is very expensive for me and it took a long enough time to be able to have a home and savings. Whereas I want to follow the sunnah
of the Prophet to be married and avoid sin. What should I do?
Sukran ya sayyidi.
Wassalam’alaikum.
Answer:
Alaykum Salam,
Ask your mother again and explain to her your reasons. Tell her your wife will help you and her as well. In sha Allah she will accept.
Hajj Gibril Haddad
