Question:
Dear Shaykh, Assalamu alaykum,
1. My mother is a munafiq I believe and she gives me baddua. I try very hard to please Allah SWT. She makes me cry. I am adult female. I say: hasbun Allahu wa naim...100x daily, daily awrad, 5 daily prayers, extra dhikr, wear hijab, do not fornicate, eat and wear halal, try to care for her but she tortures me. When and how will this all end, please?
2. To what extent must I obey my munafiq parents? They have got me under their control and I am unable to live with the freedom Allah intended for me.
Thank you and sorry to bother you.
Answer:
wa `alaykum salam.
Pray two raka`ats, in the first recite Surat al-Fatiha and eight times Ayat al-Kursi, in the second raka`at Surat al-Fatiha and seven times Ayat al-Kursi, then in sajdah make a du`a that Allah swt to make your mama’s heart more tender towards you.
Daily recite 100 times Ya Wadud, 100 times Ya Salam, 100 times Ya Hannan, 100 times salawat upon the Prophet (s).
Don’t answer your mama back with rudeness, try to be soft with her. Her bad du`a will not affect you if you did not do any wrong.
Hajjah Naziha Adil
